The Dance of evolution…
As you grow and evolve, you will find yourself shedding friends, loves, interests…
It will be hard because what is connected to them are memories. Emotions. Beauty.
And what comes next is full of the Unknown. Mystery. And sometimes fear.
You will be tempted to fight “for” relationships that simply can not exist in your new form.
The closer you come to your new state the more you will desire to cast about for safety in the Familiar. Desperately looking for an anchor, the struggles of Attachment do not always go gently.
The more you will feel like a Stranger in a Strange land.
So grieve beloved. Allow yourself the freedom to be sad, as you let go. To bid adieu to former selves and often to those who knew those former selves.
Rejoice in those who rejoice in your becoming… Even before they know what you will be.
Be conscious…Allow your mind to turn towards your ever present Higher Self in Remembrance.
Know the fear and replace it with gratitude. Do not confuse the fear of the unknown with love of what is known, lest you hold on tighter.