Judgment is coming up a lot of late.
I have been chewing on this: Correction is often confused with judgment.
The judgment gives no hope.
Correction shows another way.
Judgement condemns without mercy.
Correction frees without apology.
Judgment needs no relationship
Correction requires a relationship
Here’s the thing, Social Media is a very NEW form of communication in which many have access to things that would normally only be seen by a select few. This means that things that might be corrective to one person’s eyes are judgmental to another.
In addition, when we feel judged its often in the area where we are already judging ourselves, in the area where we have not made peace with ourselves or an area where we know we can do better.
We are so quick to make a quick judgment about how judgy someone else is being. 9/10 times you really have no idea because you can’t decide the whole story based on one paragraph.
The next time you feel someone is being judgmental ask yourself “where do I feel like this about me?” And “where do I need to accept myself more?” It will truly be of benefit loves!