Too often Relationships fall apart not because of a lack of talking, not because they are toxic, not because they are unviable… But because of something far more simple…
From the Feminine – There is an unwillingness to be changed…a rigidity that is mistaken for self-love. This is a lack of softening and receptiveness
From the Masculine -There is an unwillingness to be firm…a flaccidness of being that is mistaken for being loving. This is a lack of strength and giving.
Both of these equate with a lack of growing TOGETHER.
In Masculine /Feminine polarized dynamics this is how that looks :
The Masculines primary acts of service to the dynamic is in Leading (standing in front), Guiding (standing behind and offering direction), Protecting and Providing.
Notice Feminine Beings that this is not talking, helping you with your emotions etc; he looks outside that is his job.
The movement towards or away from the Masculine pole is often catalyzed by internal variables Testosterone and the closest relationships to his heart (parents and partner). The more internal support he has the easier it is to stay connected to his Essence.
The Feminines primary acts of service to the dynamic is: Willingness to Align, Receptivity (receiving), Surrender and Abiding Respect.
Masculine being – notice it is not Hustling, working hard and being fierce; she looks inward that is her job
The movement towards or away from the Feminine pole is often catalyzed by external Factors – society, friends, environment. The more external support she receives the easier it is to stay connected to her Essence
This is not about capability – from a purely capable perspective, these things need not be delineated by Masculine/Feminine Essence.
This is about the Fulfillment and Potency that arises from Complementary Polarity.
None must, all are invited.
When the Masculine and the Feminine come together in Devoted Pairing and Dedicated Positioning, each has their needs met, each serves the other. By giving from one end you receive in the other… There is Complementary Polarity.
It is not our intention to determine who is holding what Essence…only to describe what each Essence looks like and how it engages.
It is also of benefit to understand that one can have a habituated pattern of crystallization that is not aligned with one’s true Essence. This is very common in modern society. For example, one may have a pattern of masculine behavior when one truly has A Feminine Essence.
In another place at another time we will begin to discuss the rare exceptions, and how they show up.
We love you,