In the Sacred text there is a story, sit a bit, my love, here’s tea and pastry….and let us open our Eye to it…
The Divine showed Yosef his greatness, and Yosef in his innocence shared with his brothers, who were angry at his arrogance, bound him, took the symbol of his father’s favor, and sold him into slavery.
There are deep layers we could go into here, and perhaps we will another time, but for today….What is here for us as Feminine women specifically?
In the story we are everyone. We are Yosef and the Brothers. And there is a drama playing out today in like manner.
When the Divine in you gives you a Vision of your Greatness, do you feel safe to share it? I’m not speaking of the Great things you want to do (although that occurs on occasion as well) I’m speaking of the Radiant Beauty you ARE.
For the vast majority of women, the answer is no.
In women, we are by and large wonderful at offering support when our Sisters are down, but one of the greatest wounds that women carry is the wound of being Great and Radiant in the presence of each other. You can see it in many of the statements and memes that are written, feel it in your own body…
We do not desire to have ourselves torn apart by our Sisters, to be placed in bonds and told to be smaller, or that we are arrogant, or have our Sisters come against us.
We are also the Brothers, seeing the statement of our Sisters as a put down of ourselves, wanting to be seen as great ourselves without a willingness to share that with others. Believing that binding her will give us something.
It is time to understand and to Embody true Sacred Sisterhood. To celebrate and rejoice and hold space, not only for our Sisters brokenness but for her Beauty as well. Not only for when she’s doing bad but for when she is Fabulous… And she KNOWS IT. Often we can celebrate if a woman has some greatness if it’s come through her overcoming an obstacle or some challenge as if she’s earned it. But what about if it’s given to her? What if it came through pleasure instead of pain?
Are we willing to mature in this way?
Let’s begin here, I want to see you…
* Tell me something amazing that the Divine/Source has told you about yourself? Share your Vision of the Greatness you ARE!
* Tell me a celebration of the Greatness in ANOTHER woman, not her trials or struggles, but her Beauty alone.
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This has been such a RICH weekend. One of the best moments was when the Fabulous Goddess I mentor said: “EVERY MOMENT has been rich, meaningful and transformative”.
Here’s why this is so powerful. I don’t work like coaches (which is why I stopped attempting to label what I do coaching years ago). Not one-on-one and not in SOFT. There’s no to-do list. No schedule, no list of mandatory things. We soaked in hot tubs naked, we were massaged and scrubbed, we ate FABULOUS food and tried all sorts of drinks. We ENJOYED each other and in the process… in the BEING… HUGE gems were transmitted from Source. Shifts occurred.
Females are unique…
We are created with inner…
Nooks and crannies in our body designed for:
Connection and Pleasure
Gestation and Creation
Nurturing and Nourishment
Good morning loves!!!
What we think is based on what we’re taught my loves. Many of us mistakenly believe we’re independent thinkers and have come up with our worldview ourselves, when in reality that world view was imparted to us, nourished and fed by others and we’ve internalized it as our identity.
On healing your parent wound:
Parents have many pressures…
If a Parent celebrates a child’s intellect- they will be accused of pressing the child to get good grades
If a parent makes no note of the child’s intellect, they are accused of not acknowledging their intelligence.
If a parent says a child is beautiful- they are pressuring them in regard to their looks
If they never call the child beautiful- they are undermining their sense of beauty.
If a parent buys the child everything they’re indulgent
If they don’t but the child everything- they are selfish and teaching the child lack
If a parent makes the decisions they deem best, they are accused of denying the child’s agency.
If they allow the child to decide what they think is best, the patent is considered foolish because after all, that’s a child.
If I choose I could go on and on… Continue reading “On Healing Your Parent Wound”
For the modern western woman…The idea of being Able to do anything she wants has evolved into the expectation that she will do it all, all the time.
Here’s the biggest freedom I can offer…
This isn’t serving you my love, so let it go. Continue reading “Lessons in Feminine Stages”
Okay, my loves we’re in the last week to get SOFT™ (School of Feminine Transformation) and SOA (School of Alchemy) Forever access for the lowest price it will ever be. Continue reading “SOFT and School of Alchemy Forever Access – Last Chance!”
You asked and we heard you! On Sunday, March 26, is the Long Awaited Courtship Masterclass!! With a Divorce rate over 50% just “letting it happen” no longer works. Continue reading “Courtship Masterclass!”
There is nothing wrong with the desire to be seen, my love. In fact, it is one of our core needs and greatest nourishments as feminine women. Unfortunately, this need is often demonized and so rejected that it has become a huge shadow for many of us.
Like any hunger, it persists when resisted and comes out inappropriately in ways that don’t serve our deeper soul, nor the stage of life we’re in, often creating breaks in our integrity.
One of these ways is in believing we desire to serve when what we are really wanting is to be seen. Service is then just the vehicle, and as such-if you confuse these two- you will often find yourself burned out and resentful, feeling taken advantage of and unsatisfied… Going from one service opportunity to another… Whether that service is relational, spiritual or vocational.
*Acknowledge your need to be seen.
*Accept it and celebrate it as a natural normal aspect of your feminine experience.
*Bring it forward and make it conscious and it can no longer run your life from the unconscious space.
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