It’s time for us to really support Masculinity and to learn to live within femininity ourselves.
There is currently an erosion of masculinity taking place disguised as Awakening and Consciousness. Just as the erosion of Femininity was disguised as progress the same thing is occurring with Masculinity.
Just as the beginning of the erosion of Femininity took place first biologically for women it is now taking place biologically for men. Continue reading “The Erosion of Masculinity”
Lessons in Feminine Alchemy- Admiration vs. Respect
Many women believe that they desire most of all to be respected. And it’s easy to see why, respect is held up as the end all and be all of receiving positive regard from another person. And yet much is missing from the idea.
When you look at respect and admiration in the dictionary they are given similar definitions in fact they are synonyms of one another- but when you look into the etymology of the two terms much is revealed. Continue reading “Lessons in Feminine Alchemy – Admiration vs. Respect”
…And it is a Mystery…
For your cup must be both Full and Empty, my love.
Empty- for you can not listen, nor learn, nor enlighten in a cup that is already full.
Full- for you can not give to other-selves that which you do not have and it is ours to give from our overflow. Continue reading “Your Cup Must Be Both Full & Empty, My Love”
The greatest thing that undermines a woman’s ability to have a happy relationship with herself as well as a Masculine Complement, is not the narrative of her own life- but her internalization of the narrative that is fed to her by her family/society: Continue reading “What is the Greatest Thing that Undermines a Woman’s Ability to have a Happy Relationship?”
Relationship Lessons: He’s a Man, not your best Girl friend part 2
Many ladies have asked me “How does making him my best girlfriend look”…
Here’s the thing my love… It looks different for everyone.
I know this sounds crazy but if you’re in a permanent partnership and you find yourself often offended by how he’s choosing to spend his time, by his interests etc; that’s a good sign that you’re trying to make Him into your Girlfriend. Continue reading “He’s A Man, Not Your Girlfriend Part II”
I recently read an article in Cosmopolitan against celebrating the gender of one’s baby.
The person who wrote it seemed to have a big chip on her shoulder against baby showers in general and even gestational markers as being things that convey to a woman that her value is in her ability to grow a tiny human.
She suggests that women have other things to be concerned about and this is what’s adding to the stress.
I’d like to offer a completely different take… Continue reading “Be Brave, Mama”
You may have noticed the idea of having or expressing gender normative behavior has become somewhat of a pejorative. I hesitated to share this due to the sensitivity of the topic and my desire to not wound those whose biologic sex and energetic gender are are not the same. That said I’ve been told that this is important enough to need saying and so I ask that it is read in the spirit of love, life and compassion that it is offered.
There are many incorrect and nonbeneficial beliefs associated with gender norms so let’s begin to unpack and clarify it. Continue reading “On Gender Norms”
Those on the Path of “Conscious Mastery” and “I Am Embodiment” as the consciousness expands beyond the little “self” consciousness and the connection to the collective and I Am consciousness (that is always present but not always known) becomes known and visible then have the ability to know more clearly the distinction between what they are experiencing and what is in the mind and heart of others.
No longer running and being blown to any and every idea, they are aware of what is for them and what is, in fact, an emotion attached to an idea that is not for their direct localized individual experience at this time and place but belongs to another localized expression (person). Once this distinction begins to occur… Everything changes. Continue reading “Lessons in Alchemy: Cosmic Compersion”
“With great power comes great responsibility.”
Ladies, when you understand the great power of the Feminine you’ll begin to understand the nature of the responsibility that comes with it. When you begin to embody it All dialogue about victimization will disappear.
The change you desire resides within your own body, it lies dormant in your being. It is not your howling at the wind nor taking up arms, but feel free my love to play that game as long as you desire to. It is not your judgment nor gnashing teeth. It is so much deeper.
Your place in the world is so much more than you realize, and how it is actualized is so much other than you think. That which you have rejected is in Truth the cornerstone of Creation.
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