You can have WHATEVER you want….if you are willing to CHANGE.

If we are to get something we haven’t had before we must be willing to go where we haven’t been and do what we haven’t done.

In short in order to have the life we want – we have to be willing to change the life we have.

But change can be challenging.
Down right difficult at times.

When in the midst of change, it can feel less like an invitation and more like being clubbed over the head with a 2×4, if we do not know how to yield to it.

And lets face it most of us don’t.

In business do we keep doing what we’ve always done- rather than make the changes that are necessary? Would we rather keep taking half-steps, making light weight choices and hanging out with broke folks believing the party line that “It (success) can’t be done without losing one’s integrity, faith, love, self etc;” Do we hold those that are successful in contempt, believing that their apparent success is somehow secretly tied to some sort of moral failing or hidden vice that we dont know about?

Are we willing to change our world view, go balls-to-the-wall with passion towards what we want – understanding that there are ethical ways to build wealth without selling out, start hanging with folks doing what we want to do – going where we want to be and begin developing the habits that support that future, imagined state of being.

Check out our class on how to work 2-4 hours a day in your OWN business. 

Think about it. No matter what or where your desire is- if you want something different than what you have right now –  it’s gonna require something of you and the hardest thing it requires, is change.

Want to lose weight? Get healthy? Stop hanging with people who have unhealthy habits. Commit to your Temple. Start moving. Burn more calories than you take in. Don’t be luke warm. Hang with people who are healthy.

Is it easy? Hell no – at least not at first. But if you keep at it, it will pay off eventually.

Want a loving relationship? Stop being around people who always have something negative to say about men or women. Commit fiercely to love. Double down on the future that you WANT to have, instead of always looking backward. Begin to focus on what you love, how you desire to express love. Listen to people who already have what you WANT – stop taking love advice from people who don’t have a healthy relationship.

Want to build wealth? Be successful? Go where successful people are. Do the habits they do. Commit to the process. Work the pattern. Understand how they see the world, how they see money, how they see business – and shift your perspectives accordingly. (Sign up for Wealth Building Help NOW)

Your assignment – should you choose to accept it – is to do this now. Find the place where change is needed to create the abundance you desire in whatever area you desire it – and begin to change NOW –

Be Awesome,

~Richard and Namaste

The Local Maximum and Moving Your Booty

You Cant Get Paid What You’re Worth..at Work.

If you’re like most people you go to work everyday and you do a job for someone. They typically will pay you less than you’re ‘worth’ – not in the sense of your ultimate worth, because I happen to believe that you are priceless, but in terms of the relative worth of your output vis a vis the goals of the business. Its just basic economics – they cannot pay you exactly what you’re worth or even close to it because it would drive them out of business if they did. Its the value of your surplus labor – the delta between the value of your surplus labor and what they pay you contributes to the profit of the business.

Why do I mention this here? Because its a common complaint of many people working a day-to-day job and is often used as a jumping off point of dissatisfaction and the fuel for many fantasies of ‘what I would do if I didn’t have to work here’ musings. Interestingly enough, its almost never enough of a motivator for someone to say “We are done here!” and walk out of their ‘job’ to pursue a different reality, one in which they are for instance, their OWN boss.

What keeps you from getting started

My theory is that free floating job dissatisfaction actually masks another issue that is deeper and really keeps us stuck in place at our current place of employment. This is also a common problem with a lot of people and results from attachments to poverty and lack that can keep us stifled and in a paradox state – e.g. we are doing the Work that we are here to do, but somewhat dismayed at the lack of progress toward our living the life that we truly want to live. There can be a number of reasons for this – but the chief issue that we have found is that most people have little idea of the nuts and bolts of how to monetize what it is that they do so they can also begin living the life of their dreams from a wealth building standpoint. Additionally many denominations from our youth have implied from a doctrinal standpoint that poverty and suffering is what one should expect, if you are trying to ‘do good’. So there you have it – a recipe for dissatisfaction and heartache for many people who feel that Great Spirit/The Divine/God has a ‘call’ on their lives in some form and they feel led to express it in any number of ways.

The Local Maximum and Moving Your Booty

The local maximum is a mathematical term – It’s like standing on top of a small hill, when next to you is a mountain. You want to go up the mountain, but you can’t go straight from where you are to the top of the mountain… you must first go DOWN in order to go UP, and you hate to go down, because after all you really, really want to go up!! The principle of the local maximum keeps people stuck. It can keep you in bad relationships, in abusive relationships, in jobs you hate, in states of addiction to drugs. That Valley of Uncomfortable keeps you from working out, from starting a new business, from doing something, anything risky and from facing things that you are afraid of.

Why is this?

Because of the phenomenon of going down to go UP is scary and uncomfortable – lets say you are at a job that you despise right now and you want to GET FREE and start your own business. Because you aren’t currently doing said business, you are going to have to learn some things about working online that you probably dont currently know. But for now, you are looking from the Local Maximum where you are currently – at the Real Goal of making more money and having your own business!!

Can you do it!? Heck Yeah!!! In the world of ideas and potential you can DO anything..but in your REAL LIFE, in order to realize that dream of having your own business, you are going to have to do a number of things if you want to be successful, but two things pretty immediately.

1. Get off your BOOTY and BEGIN LEARNING HOW.  We have tons of resources here to help you do that. – this one in particular: The Hustle Free Business Class

2. (eventually) Stop doing what you are doing now and devote most of your energy toward doing what you want to do. When that day comes, lets be honest – unless you were independently wealthy to begin with, you will have to forgo the steady paycheck they are paying you now until your business income catches up. In other words, you will probably have to go DOWN a little before you go UP to where you want to be. Same thing happens if you get out of that sucky relationship…or finally start going to the gym after dedicating a ton of time to the Art of Doing Nothing.

Its going to hurt…at first. Eventually you’ll get better at it and things will be a LOT better.

Dont let the Local Maximum keep you stuck.

Cut down on the time spent in the Valley of Uncomfortable. If you want to make more money and stop working for Someone Else – align yourself with sources of knowledge (like Infinite Couple) and opportunities for income generation that will cut down dramatically on the time period of DOWN before UP.

The Hustle Free Business Class

You are going to have to work hard – that’s true. You are going to have to do some things you may not be used to doing in order to be successful. There WILL be growing pains. Commit yourself to working SMARTER, not HARDER. Let us help you over the hurdles we experienced by teaching you step-by-step what and how to do next. You’ll be successful THAT much quicker as a result.

But if you hang in there – you will be able to see yourself getting closer to your goal. Simlarly, getting out of that suck-ass relationship will mean being alone for a bit while you make space in your life for what you TRULY want. Again, DOWN before UP.

UP – is coming.

Hang in there. It will be SO worth it. Trust me on that.

Closer to the life you want to live. And that peace of mind is what this is really all about.

We’d LOVE to have you onboard with us – we believe in ethical marketing and we believe in Taking Inspired Action. Check in with your Inner Compass, whatever that looks like for you. Consult your Inner Guidance System or Spiritual practice. When you get your internal green light –

Lets Do This!!!

I am Namaste Moore

 

I have lived many lifetimes… In this one.

At the age of 6 I declared I wanted to help women have babies.

I was told that’s called an Ob/gyn. So I declared I wanted to be that!

At 6 I was molested by a female babysitter.

At the age of 11 I did my science fair project on Menstruation and the Female Reproductive System (with appropriate diagrams and 3-D models) which went to the state level.

At 12 I was molested by my stepfather.

At 13 I began reading every book I could get my hands on about relationships, how to interact with the opposite sex, how are men? How are women? Paying attention to the differences between us.

At the age of 15, I began working in an Ob/Gyns office who specializes in Infertility- doppling women, taking blood pressure, weighing them… Basic back office procedures and being known in the office for being able to find ferning (a sign of impending ovulation) with 100% accuracy (not even the nurses could do it). I observed the way the women felt to me energetically, the way the related to their husbands, their personal history and noticed a corollary in what was showing up physically.

At this point, I also began to go deeper in my studies in herbalism, crystals, metaphysics etc in earnest. Because I was also a born again Christian it was a bit challenging.

I was the go-to person in school for any female issues. My mother’s friends and female members of our church would come to me for any female health related concerns, BEFORE going to their doctor and then come back for my natural treatment recommendations after diagnosis.

At 17 I was date raped by a boyfriend. (I later found out he was in his thirties)

By 18 I had married my first husband birthed my first child, delivered by a nurse midwife at which point I decided that if I went into birthing it’d be via midwifery. I began to study relationships from a practical level now.

By this point I’d noticed a few things. The way women were handled in gynecological exams, the invasive nature of them, how violated I felt no matter how good the Drs bedside manner. I began to look at the energy of it and it was disturbing. I began to do some research and question the whole western medicine system. This wasn’t easy for me because I’d wanted to be a part of it for basically my entire life.

There’s is much more to my story…

All of which is to say… When I’m speaking about the internalized, subtle, and pervasive beliefs most women carry about their Yoni, about their Femininity, about being a woman and how this deep pervasive distrust is what causes the vast majority of physical, emotional, spiritual and mental suffering I see in women… It’s not a theory or something I came up with overnight. It’s not a cute meme. It’s something I’ve been studying, researching, and working with my whole life, helping women understand and heal the Physical, the mental, the Spiritual, the emotional.

This is why I have had to live so many lifetimes in this one lifetime. This is why I have to share so much of me in all my facets… Maternal, lover, wife, artist, self-adornment, high Priestess, healer, Oracle. Because my path is one of being an embodiment and Ikon. This is what everything that I do with women is about… Wholeness for your WHOLE BEING.

Your life can be transformed. Your pain can become pleasure. The thing you think is your liability is actually your greatest gift. Your femininity in all its forms and expressions is what the world needs it’s what moves mountains with ease and it’s the place you’ll find the fulfillment your heart has been longing for my love.

Stop running.

This is Feminine Alchemy and it’s here for you.

I’m Namaste Moore, and I’m your Feminine Alchemist.
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On Mothering Our Sons

Mothering Sons

 

Good morning my loves,

I see many of you have sons and it can seem like when your son becomes a teenager OR even a pre teen that he has become someone else altogether. I witness many mothers struggling in this and wondering what is The “correct” way to parent their sons.

The journey of young men to manhood is not an easy one. It becomes even more complex because many women hold the mistaken belief that male parents are optional and that a mother can do it all alone. We are amazing and fabulous ladies, but we can not teach our boys to be men.

To take it one step further, If we hold a negative view of men we can inadvertently give our sons a self loathing that breeds the very seeds of misogyny that many women fear.

In order to raise boys who become men, we must first heal our relationship with the masculine.

We must allow our longing, respect and admiration for masculine energy as embodied by males. Yes even if we do not have someone in our lives that we are currently in relationship with. Our sons need to see strong male leadership as something WE as mothers and women find beautiful.

Secondly we need to understand that our relationships with our sons need to change.

I know this is hard mamas, but we have to learn to lean back – his emerging masculine requires it. When I say lean back in this context I’m speaking of giving him space to make decisions, having requirements of responsibility and not smothering him with your opinions – especially if you’re a single mom. It is the nature of children to want to please you as mom it is also the nature of a manchild to want to be his own man. If you do not give him space to form his own opinion he will often agree to your opinion but do something else to avoid the conflict. This is where the incongruence and inner conflict that we find showing up in relationships in many men first appears. This internal belief that it is better to lie to avoid rejection and disappointing the feminine usually begins in his relationship with his mother. You can help break this global wound by how you parent your son.

The truth is by the time children become teens we should be passing into being a consultant anyway. This is true with our sons as well. If you have a Father figure in your sons life let him take the lead. If you do not… The situation can be more difficult as you may feel pressure to be both mother and father.

Release that.

You can’t be mother and father and that’s okay. You CAN love and nourish your son as a mother and attract into your life masculine energy to help your son.

Love,

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Empowered Women change the world!

It’s true my darlings – empowered women DO change the world – but probably not in the way you think.

We are the way the Universe helps Humanity to REMEMBER.

Empowered women ready to be world changers know how to move from Power OVER – into Power TO… and are wise enough to discern the distinction between the two.

I go VERY deeply into the role and power of compassion and our willingness to be broken open in the video below.

I’d love to hear from you- How have you worked with compassion and breaking open in your own life my loves?

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