“Many women struggle with being mothers because no one taught them they must relinquish being maidens FIRST”
A woman who is still a maiden and becomes a mother will often revert to adolescence in her behavior towards her child’s father. Demanding he be a father, but not realizing the demand is that he become the “Daddy” she always wanted, not the Father her children need.
She often perceives him as aloof, distant, unfeeling, uncaring, negligent and the like…
While she wants to feel cared for, nourished, protected, held, tended to.
Do you see it now my loves? She becomes the child.. attempting to hold on to her former state and unwilling to transition.
A woman who has learned to be a Wife/Queen first… has relinquished her maiden status, and so is better able to stand as a mother. She has entered into PARTNERSHIP not mere relationship – and so is able create from her full cup….