On Gender Norms

You may have noticed the idea of having or expressing gender normative behavior has become somewhat of a pejorative. I hesitated to share this due to the sensitivity of the topic and my desire to not wound those whose biologic sex and energetic gender are are not the same. That said I’ve been told that this is important enough to need saying and so I ask that it is read in the spirit of love, life and compassion that it is offered.

There are many incorrect and nonbeneficial beliefs associated with gender norms so let’s begin to unpack and clarify it. Continue reading “On Gender Norms”

The Way Through Duality

Teaching.. Consciousness and expansion into True Self as All… And the place of Masculine and Feminine essence within that paradigm…

Based on my comment to another post…It is long but worth it
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The distinction between Masculine Essenced beings and Feminine Essenced beings is part of my great Work at this point in the space time continuum and it is typically not discussed in many consciousness oriented circles beyond saying that everyone has both and does both if they get to high enough consciousness- which is true in part when viewed through one facet but incomplete in many ways and definitely does not make other facets less relevant or lower in consciousness. It’s as if what is being expressed subtly is “we are one with everything” while not acknowledging that the expression of my localized self, a table and a chair each have distinct and valid positions in their current form in relationship to each other, and that distinction is also a facet and actually an expression of the Absolute not a departure from it.  Continue reading “The Way Through Duality”

Leave Her Soft

For all the little girls that will be born tomorrow and the little girls crying within the women of today….

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If you love her… Leave her Soft.

Don’t harden her and toughen her up.
Let her be a princess, a ballerina, let her wear tiaras and tutus. Being Feral is just another word for being neglected and living without love. Don’t demand she hustle and grind and “use her head”.

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Do You Feel Safe Sharing Your Greatness?

In the Sacred text there is a story, sit a bit, my love, here’s tea and pastry….and let us open our Eye to it…

The Divine showed Yosef his greatness, and Yosef in his innocence shared with his brothers, who were angry at his arrogance, bound him, took the symbol of his father’s favor, and sold him into slavery.

There are deep layers we could go into here, and perhaps we will another time, but for today….What is here for us as Feminine women specifically?

In the story we are everyone. We are Yosef and the Brothers. And there is a drama playing out today in like manner.

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Return To The Art of Play

This has been such a RICH weekend. One of the best moments was when the Fabulous Goddess I mentor said: “EVERY MOMENT has been rich, meaningful and transformative”.

Here’s why this is so powerful. I don’t work like coaches (which is why I stopped attempting to label what I do coaching years ago). Not one-on-one and not in SOFT. There’s no to-do list. No schedule, no list of mandatory things. We soaked in hot tubs naked, we were massaged and scrubbed, we ate FABULOUS food and tried all sorts of drinks. We ENJOYED each other and in the process… in the BEING… HUGE gems were transmitted from Source. Shifts occurred. 

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The New Moon in Gemini – a great time to get clear!

Hello,  love!

Thursday 5/25/17 is the New Moon in Gemini. New Moons are always highly potent times for women all over the globe. New Moons are a wonderful time to set new intentions and get very clear on that which has been hidden from you.

This New Moon is also a Super Moon meaning that the energy will be especially high! The New moon is in Gemini whose energy is fun, curious, but also a bit anxious and fabulously versatile. This means a lot of very interesting explorations can occur- just be sure to exercise some mindfulness lest you end up scattered my love.

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Freedom Is Your Birthright

Late night recalibration from Source:

What a fascinating experience you have created dear Human creature.

You create scenerios that enable you to consistently perceive your human experience not as a delight but as a constant victimization, struggle and battle. You feel yourself as being wounded, under seige and subject to toxic environments and experiences that harm you by every turn. Emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually. No one and nothing can be trusted.

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The Cure For Pain Is Always PRESENT.

I have had the privilege of meeting, engaging with and ministering to the most amazing people my loves- one thing stands out…

The cure for pain is always PRESENT.

It is not in some future when- when whatever global, societal or communal policies are in place that you see missing. It is not when the world comes to consciousness, nirvana or awakening. It is not when THOSE people stop doing THAT thing, or when THESE people begin doing THIS thing.

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