You can have WHATEVER you want….if you are willing to CHANGE.

If we are to get something we haven’t had before we must be willing to go where we haven’t been and do what we haven’t done.

In short in order to have the life we want – we have to be willing to change the life we have.

But change can be challenging.
Down right difficult at times.

When in the midst of change, it can feel less like an invitation and more like being clubbed over the head with a 2×4, if we do not know how to yield to it.

And lets face it most of us don’t.

In business do we keep doing what we’ve always done- rather than make the changes that are necessary? Would we rather keep taking half-steps, making light weight choices and hanging out with broke folks believing the party line that “It (success) can’t be done without losing one’s integrity, faith, love, self etc;” Do we hold those that are successful in contempt, believing that their apparent success is somehow secretly tied to some sort of moral failing or hidden vice that we dont know about?

Are we willing to change our world view, go balls-to-the-wall with passion towards what we want – understanding that there are ethical ways to build wealth without selling out, start hanging with folks doing what we want to do – going where we want to be and begin developing the habits that support that future, imagined state of being.

Check out our class on how to work 2-4 hours a day in your OWN business. 

Think about it. No matter what or where your desire is- if you want something different than what you have right now –  it’s gonna require something of you and the hardest thing it requires, is change.

Want to lose weight? Get healthy? Stop hanging with people who have unhealthy habits. Commit to your Temple. Start moving. Burn more calories than you take in. Don’t be luke warm. Hang with people who are healthy.

Is it easy? Hell no – at least not at first. But if you keep at it, it will pay off eventually.

Want a loving relationship? Stop being around people who always have something negative to say about men or women. Commit fiercely to love. Double down on the future that you WANT to have, instead of always looking backward. Begin to focus on what you love, how you desire to express love. Listen to people who already have what you WANT – stop taking love advice from people who don’t have a healthy relationship.

Want to build wealth? Be successful? Go where successful people are. Do the habits they do. Commit to the process. Work the pattern. Understand how they see the world, how they see money, how they see business – and shift your perspectives accordingly. (Sign up for Wealth Building Help NOW)

Your assignment – should you choose to accept it – is to do this now. Find the place where change is needed to create the abundance you desire in whatever area you desire it – and begin to change NOW –

Be Awesome,

~Richard and Namaste

The Local Maximum and Moving Your Booty

You Cant Get Paid What You’re Worth..at Work.

If you’re like most people you go to work everyday and you do a job for someone. They typically will pay you less than you’re ‘worth’ – not in the sense of your ultimate worth, because I happen to believe that you are priceless, but in terms of the relative worth of your output vis a vis the goals of the business. Its just basic economics – they cannot pay you exactly what you’re worth or even close to it because it would drive them out of business if they did. Its the value of your surplus labor – the delta between the value of your surplus labor and what they pay you contributes to the profit of the business.

Why do I mention this here? Because its a common complaint of many people working a day-to-day job and is often used as a jumping off point of dissatisfaction and the fuel for many fantasies of ‘what I would do if I didn’t have to work here’ musings. Interestingly enough, its almost never enough of a motivator for someone to say “We are done here!” and walk out of their ‘job’ to pursue a different reality, one in which they are for instance, their OWN boss.

What keeps you from getting started

My theory is that free floating job dissatisfaction actually masks another issue that is deeper and really keeps us stuck in place at our current place of employment. This is also a common problem with a lot of people and results from attachments to poverty and lack that can keep us stifled and in a paradox state – e.g. we are doing the Work that we are here to do, but somewhat dismayed at the lack of progress toward our living the life that we truly want to live. There can be a number of reasons for this – but the chief issue that we have found is that most people have little idea of the nuts and bolts of how to monetize what it is that they do so they can also begin living the life of their dreams from a wealth building standpoint. Additionally many denominations from our youth have implied from a doctrinal standpoint that poverty and suffering is what one should expect, if you are trying to ‘do good’. So there you have it – a recipe for dissatisfaction and heartache for many people who feel that Great Spirit/The Divine/God has a ‘call’ on their lives in some form and they feel led to express it in any number of ways.

The Local Maximum and Moving Your Booty

The local maximum is a mathematical term – It’s like standing on top of a small hill, when next to you is a mountain. You want to go up the mountain, but you can’t go straight from where you are to the top of the mountain… you must first go DOWN in order to go UP, and you hate to go down, because after all you really, really want to go up!! The principle of the local maximum keeps people stuck. It can keep you in bad relationships, in abusive relationships, in jobs you hate, in states of addiction to drugs. That Valley of Uncomfortable keeps you from working out, from starting a new business, from doing something, anything risky and from facing things that you are afraid of.

Why is this?

Because of the phenomenon of going down to go UP is scary and uncomfortable – lets say you are at a job that you despise right now and you want to GET FREE and start your own business. Because you aren’t currently doing said business, you are going to have to learn some things about working online that you probably dont currently know. But for now, you are looking from the Local Maximum where you are currently – at the Real Goal of making more money and having your own business!!

Can you do it!? Heck Yeah!!! In the world of ideas and potential you can DO anything..but in your REAL LIFE, in order to realize that dream of having your own business, you are going to have to do a number of things if you want to be successful, but two things pretty immediately.

1. Get off your BOOTY and BEGIN LEARNING HOW.  We have tons of resources here to help you do that. – this one in particular: The Hustle Free Business Class

2. (eventually) Stop doing what you are doing now and devote most of your energy toward doing what you want to do. When that day comes, lets be honest – unless you were independently wealthy to begin with, you will have to forgo the steady paycheck they are paying you now until your business income catches up. In other words, you will probably have to go DOWN a little before you go UP to where you want to be. Same thing happens if you get out of that sucky relationship…or finally start going to the gym after dedicating a ton of time to the Art of Doing Nothing.

Its going to hurt…at first. Eventually you’ll get better at it and things will be a LOT better.

Dont let the Local Maximum keep you stuck.

Cut down on the time spent in the Valley of Uncomfortable. If you want to make more money and stop working for Someone Else – align yourself with sources of knowledge (like Infinite Couple) and opportunities for income generation that will cut down dramatically on the time period of DOWN before UP.

The Hustle Free Business Class

You are going to have to work hard – that’s true. You are going to have to do some things you may not be used to doing in order to be successful. There WILL be growing pains. Commit yourself to working SMARTER, not HARDER. Let us help you over the hurdles we experienced by teaching you step-by-step what and how to do next. You’ll be successful THAT much quicker as a result.

But if you hang in there – you will be able to see yourself getting closer to your goal. Simlarly, getting out of that suck-ass relationship will mean being alone for a bit while you make space in your life for what you TRULY want. Again, DOWN before UP.

UP – is coming.

Hang in there. It will be SO worth it. Trust me on that.

Closer to the life you want to live. And that peace of mind is what this is really all about.

We’d LOVE to have you onboard with us – we believe in ethical marketing and we believe in Taking Inspired Action. Check in with your Inner Compass, whatever that looks like for you. Consult your Inner Guidance System or Spiritual practice. When you get your internal green light –

Lets Do This!!!

Ending the Sexism, Healing the Masculine

Good morning beloveds,

This morning while riding around something profound dropped into me. It literally took my breath away in part because it was and is the answer to a question I’ve had a for a very long time.

Where did this battle of the sexes begin?

This morning as I was meditating on Yoni love, and the need for us as women to be willing to adore and express worship to the lingam as well – Spirit dropped in and said “The Feminine did a great wrong to the Masculine” as I opened up n curiosity to this message it began to unfold before me.I saw ancient man – who worshipped women for her ability to create who saw it as magic.  I saw ancient women knowing the secret of her blood, the secret of creation – that it required both man and woman to create another human being.  I saw her telling these secrets to her daughter and it being a secret withheld from man. The Secret of why they worshiped us. I saw the look of hurt, betrayal, and then anger on the face of ancient man when he realized – when he realized that woman had denied his power. Denied his Divinity.  Denied that LIFE was not a dyad between woman and the gods- but was a triad between man and woman and the Divine.

It hit me like a blow to my belly… I began to share with Richard and He began to tell me the effect that this long forgotten betrayal has had on the global psyche of men.  How and why men distrust women. How it shows up.  I saw how with this new rising of the Feminine we also must see and understand the Feminine shadow that also rises. The shadow that seeks to deny MEN their place at the table, their creative ability, their Divinity and necessity in creation. How this story plays out THIS time is up to us ladies.

Watch the video below— share it widely… We are the answer we’ve been waiting for.

I love your face,

~Namaste

Empowered Women change the world!

It’s true my darlings – empowered women DO change the world – but probably not in the way you think.

We are the way the Universe helps Humanity to REMEMBER.

Empowered women ready to be world changers know how to move from Power OVER – into Power TO… and are wise enough to discern the distinction between the two.

I go VERY deeply into the role and power of compassion and our willingness to be broken open in the video below.

I’d love to hear from you- How have you worked with compassion and breaking open in your own life my loves?

P.S. -More information on Feminine Embodiment can be found at http://tinyurl.com/GetSOFT  – Yoni Eggs can be purchased at www.desiredthingz.com or http://desiredthingz.etsy.com

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Are you in Love or abuse?

 

Good morning darlings!

I LOVE the above quote by Meredith Marple. We talk about self-love. But when is the last time you truly treated yourself like you love your self? No I’m not asking when is the last time you told someone else how much you love yourself. I’m talking about a deep, lavish, effusive sort of self love that nearly drowns you in adoration.

That.

Think you know ALLLLL there is to know about self love? Well love is known by how we care – keep reading to see

(saying the right things and having the right “look”)

Here’s some practical questions to ask:

  • What’s the tone of your inner voice?
  • What names do you call yourself?
  • Do your speak to yourself with patience?
  • When you are struggling, sad, feeling weak what’s your inner dialogue like?
  • What statements do you hear in the mirror?
  • When you’re working out, what’s the inner dialogue?
  • When you’re deeply in love… What does your mind say to you?

See – self care isn’t about how much you feel like a rock star when you do things PERFECTLY. No – self care is really known when you AREN’T at the top of your game, and the truth is….

Many women are suffering in abusive relationships with Their MINDS.

If you’ve established no boundaries in what type of self talk is acceptable, if your mind has you living in fear, if you feel like you can’t live without it beating you up… Your mind is abusing you.

The first step in self care… Is CARE.

C- Compassion and Contentment – You are worthy of compassion and contentment. Speaking internally to yourself in a way that demonstrates you feel compassion and believe yourself  worthy of contentment is HUGE in the land of Self care.

A- Appreciation – To appreciate is to increase in Value. You want to appreciate yourself based on who you ARE- not what you do. While Self Esteem is based on doing esteemable actions – appreciation is based on value. YOU determine what your innate value is – and darling, if you don’t feel yourself to be priceless- you are under-valuing yourself.

R – Rest – When a baby or a beloved pet is tired to you yell at them? Do you make them keep going and going and going?  No? Then why do you do that to yourself? Honoring and celebrating your desire to rest is a core “tell” when it comes to Self care. No matter how much time at the salon, spa or gym a woman spends – if she can’t rest, she’s not really tapped into the deep energy of Self care.

E- Encouragement – Originally the word encourage came from terms meaning “to put in or strengthen the innermost feelings”. How beautiful is that? Too often we DIScourage ourselves by demeaning, devaluing and disparaging ourselves for our innermost feelings and desires – and instead try to “put on” someone else’s idea of what empowerment looks like. An example of this is a woman who longs for a relationship but demeans that inner feeling and “put on” the idea that she doesn’t need ANYONE.

So darlings- How can you give yourself more authentic self CARE this week?

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We are in the MMA!

Good morning my darlings!

I know I know its been a while since we’ve written here, we’ve been very busy getting super clear on what we want and also re-starting something that we began a couple years ago but put on pause and didn’t really delve into that much. It’s our Financial Freedom website! Over there we offer classes, Masterminds, a blogging platform and more to help people find financial freedom and/or get their business mojo on point. Check us out!

For the last couple of months, Richard and I have been on Periscope basically every day (or nearly every day) inspiring, communicating and more! This morning’s broadcast was all about MMA- Monday Morning Alignment!

For most people Mondays suck muchly – but we believe Monday s a delightful opportunity to release and refresh and start the week with blessings!

Join us as we do a few rounds of EFT to help end the Monday morning blah-blahs and supercharge your Brilliance!

Life Alchemy – Making Powerful Decisions

So loves – I’m just off the heels of my Taste Retreat which was absolutely phenomenal. Coming off of that we were noticing that we get a TON of questions about how to make powerful decisions. Many people say: “Just be fearless!”, or “Make a list of pros and cons” – but there’s a way to make decisions, come to clarity and much more that guarantees that you’ll make the BEST decision for you.

We use this with most of our decisions- and when we HAVENT used it- we’ve regretted it hugely. (Basically every mistake has been a result of not using it)

And over the years we’ve found out that most of our top successful folks use it as well.

Life AlchemyFlipping

Join us 7/22/15 at 8pmCDT ((pmEDT, 6pmPDT) as we align and alchemize your knowing to make powerful decisions by Flipping the Script!! 

 

Life Alchemy is doing Biz Alchemy – Masterminding!

Hey there loves!!

We’ve been talking a great deal these days about giving some of the BIG SECRETS we’ve learned about business and what it takes to build a thriving business that can sustain you.

We’ve spent thousands of dollars in trainings, various business options, softwares, programs, teachings and more – and we’ve learned quite a bit in that time.

We both started with a background that went from being in Ministry to climbing the Corporate ladder.  We left what many would consider “good jobs” (six-figures) to work for ourselves- doing what we love and what is our PURPOSE.

It was challenging in the early days – but we stuck with it and  learned some tools that enabled our income to increase amazingly over less than a year.

In the next few weeks we’re sharing SOME of those tools on our “Life Alchemy” show on Married to Change Radio because one of our visions has always been to help others build a business that sustains your life.

Mastermind Show

In this weeks show we’re talking about “Masterminding”!

Masterminding is a BIG buzzword in many circles – this week we’re talking Masterminding and how it can HELP or HINDER your state of Attraction.

Having studied Masterminding we came to this idea – that MOST Mastermind groups are leaving out a few VITAL principles that can make or break a Mastermind

We’d love to hear your stories – have you ever been in a mastermind?

What worked? What didn’t?

Also – what would you LOVE to Mastermind about?

Join us on Life Alchemy with Richard & Namaste and Learn how to create a mastermind group for money, love or success in ANY future endeavor!

Check out the show here

on 7/8/15 at 8pmCDT (9pmEDT, 6pmPDT)

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