Ending the Sexism, Healing the Masculine

Good morning beloveds,

This morning while riding around something profound dropped into me. It literally took my breath away in part because it was and is the answer to a question I’ve had a for a very long time.

Where did this battle of the sexes begin?

This morning as I was meditating on Yoni love, and the need for us as women to be willing to adore and express worship to the lingam as well – Spirit dropped in and said “The Feminine did a great wrong to the Masculine” as I opened up n curiosity to this message it began to unfold before me.I saw ancient man – who worshipped women for her ability to create who saw it as magic.  I saw ancient women knowing the secret of her blood, the secret of creation – that it required both man and woman to create another human being.  I saw her telling these secrets to her daughter and it being a secret withheld from man. The Secret of why they worshiped us. I saw the look of hurt, betrayal, and then anger on the face of ancient man when he realized – when he realized that woman had denied his power. Denied his Divinity.  Denied that LIFE was not a dyad between woman and the gods- but was a triad between man and woman and the Divine.

It hit me like a blow to my belly… I began to share with Richard and He began to tell me the effect that this long forgotten betrayal has had on the global psyche of men.  How and why men distrust women. How it shows up.  I saw how with this new rising of the Feminine we also must see and understand the Feminine shadow that also rises. The shadow that seeks to deny MEN their place at the table, their creative ability, their Divinity and necessity in creation. How this story plays out THIS time is up to us ladies.

Watch the video below— share it widely… We are the answer we’ve been waiting for.

I love your face,

~Namaste

Lessons in Communication

 

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Lessons in Communication….
 
Good morning my loves,
In any communication… Specifically, a dialogue about a topic people feel tender about there are multiple spheres: the spiritual level, the societal level, the energetic level, the mental level, the emotional level just to name a few.
 
Often disagreement occurs because the two (or more) people are not communicating at the same sphere and thus do not share perspective. There is a tendency to communicate (both in giving and receiving) at the level that you are most connected to, have the most ego, or are experiencing the most pain at that moment.
 
The problem is many of us think communication is talking, or in today’s world typing. We make a series of statements-without making sure we understood the other person and consider that communication. It’s not, beloved.
Mastery is the recognition that there are multiple levels, being able to communicate at multiple levels and willing to maintain the plasticity to move between them to aid connection. Remember communication means to connect.
 
You can practice by listening to or reading dialogue without assumption or judgment and simply asking “what level is this?”

Love,

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I See You

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Hey gorgeous,
I see you.
Always hustling, grinding, pushing.
I see you.
You’re an amazing marvelous woman… Capable. Competent. Fierce.
And I want so much more for you than that.
I hope for your Fulfillment, your Joy, your pleasure.

But you’re addicted to the struggle.

You’re used to it being hard. You’ve begun to define yourself by how difficult it is. So much so that you’ve based your self-worth on your ability to overcome adversity.
And so… You need the struggle to feel “right”.

I see you.
And I say… There’s another way.
What if life was offering you ease?
What if your pleasure was your power?
What if it wasn’t about “the struggle” at all?
Surrender and float.

Love,

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On Mothering Our Sons

Mothering Sons

Mothering Sons

Good morning my loves,

I see many of you have sons and it can seem like when your son becomes a teenager OR even a pre teen that he has become someone else altogether. I witness many mothers struggling in this and wondering what is The “correct” way to parent their sons.

The journey of young men to manhood is not an easy one. It becomes even more complex because many women hold the mistaken belief that male parents are optional and that a mother can do it all alone. We are amazing and fabulous ladies, but we can not teach our boys to be men.

To take it one step further, If we hold a negative view of men we can inadvertently give our sons a self loathing that breeds the very seeds of misogyny that many women fear.

In order to raise boys who become men, we must first heal our relationship with the masculine.

We must allow our longing, respect and admiration for masculine energy as embodied by males. Yes even if we do not have someone in our lives that we are currently in relationship with. Our sons need to see strong male leadership as something WE as mothers and women find beautiful.

Secondly we need to understand that our relationships with our sons need to change.

I know this is hard mamas, but we have to learn to lean back – his emerging masculine requires it. When I say lean back in this context I’m speaking of giving him space to make decisions, having requirements of responsibility and not smothering him with your opinions – especially if you’re a single mom. It is the nature of children to want to please you as mom it is also the nature of a manchild to want to be his own man. If you do not give him space to form his own opinion he will often agree to your opinion but do something else to avoid the conflict. This is where the incongruence and inner conflict that we find showing up in relationships in many men first appears. This internal belief that it is better to lie to avoid rejection and disappointing the feminine usually begins in his relationship with his mother. You can help break this global wound by how you parent your son.

The truth is by the time children become teens we should be passing into being a consultant anyway. This is true with our sons as well. If you have a Father figure in your sons life let him take the lead. If you do not… The situation can be more difficult as you may feel pressure to be both mother and father.

Release that.

You can’t be mother and father and that’s okay. You CAN love and nourish your son as a mother and attract into your life masculine energy to help your son.

Love,

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Darling, Get Off The Fence…

Woman stuck on fence

Woman stuck on fence

Good morning my loves,

This morning I felt to share with you something that has been deeply impactful in my life, and I’m sure it will impact yours too.

So often as women we feel the need for balance. In fact nearly every woman that talks to me, comes for a healing session etc says the same thing… She wants more balance in her life. She’s trying to balance her masculine and feminine. She feels out of balance.  Continue reading “Darling, Get Off The Fence…”